Dorothy Law Nolte (1998) wrote an amazing poem... I love this poem, I hope in the future I can take care my childrean like as dorothy said.

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Children Learn What They Live

If children live with criticism,

they learn to condemn.

If children live with hostility,

they learn to fight.

If children live with fear,

they learn to be apprehensive.

If children live with pity,

they learn to feel sorry for themselves.

If children live with ridicule,

they learn to feel shy.

If children live with jealousy,

they learn to feel envy.

If children live with shame,

they learn to feel guilty.

If children live with encouragement,

they learn confidence.

If children live with tolerance,

they learn patience.

If children live with praise,

they learn appreciation.

If children live with acceptance,

they learn to love.

If children live with approval,

they learn to like themselves.

If children live with recognition,

they learn it is good to have a goal.

If children live with sharing,

they learn generosity.

If children live with honesty,

they learn truthfulness.

If children live with fairness,

they learn justice.

If children live with kindness and consideration,

they learn respect.

If children live with security,

they learn to have faith in themselves

and in those about them.

If children live with friendliness,

they learn the world is a nice place in

which to live.

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Dorothy Law Nolte

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First, the rules:

Each player of this game starts with the 6 weird things about you. People who get tagged need to write a blog of their own 6 weird things as well as state this rule clearly. In the end, you need to choose 6 people to be tagged and list their names. Don’t forget to leave a comment that says you are tagged in their comments and tell them to read your blog.

^_^ I've been tagged. Now I'll say 6 weird things about me :p

1. Love manga and anime so much, because of that sometimes I have a weird think that, what if I were one of the my fave character in manga.
2. If I'm getting stressed, I'll listen rock music and sing it with weird voice
3. I can see ghost... You can believe it or not, is up to you
4. I'm obsessed on odd number
5. I love mistique thing
6. I have fear on high

I'm Tagging You:
RiRi
Lily
Khangich
Andrew
Apriria
Herik

"Over It"

I'm over your lies,
and I'm over your games.
I'm over you asking me,
when you know I'm not okay.
You call me at night,
and I pick up the phone.
And though you've been telling me,
I know you're not alone.
oh..

That's why
(your eyes)
I'm over it
(your smile)
I'm over it
(realize)
I'm over it
I'm over it
I'm over..

Wanting you,
to be wanting me.
No that ain't no way to be.
How I feel, read my lips,
because I'm so over..
Moving on, it's my time,
you never were a friend of mine.
Hurt at first, a little bit,
but now I'm so over.
I'm so over it..

I'm over your hands,
and I'm over your mouth.
Trying to drag me down,
and fill me with self-doubt.
oh..

That's why,
(your words)
I'm over it
(so sure)
I'm over it
(I'm not your girl)
I'm over it

I'm over it
I'm over...

Wanting you,
to be wanting me.
No that ain't no way to be.
How I feel, read my lips,
because I'm so over..
Moving on, it's my time,
you never were a friend of mine.
Hurt at first, a little bit,
but now I'm so over.
I'm so over it..

Don't call,
don't come by,
ain't no use,
don't ask me why,
you'll never change,
there'll be no more crying in the rain.

Wanting you,
to be wanting me.
No that ain't no way to be.
How I feel, read my lips,
because I'm so over..
Moving on, it's my time,
you never were a friend of mine.
Hurt at first, a little bit,
but now I'm so over.
I'm so over it..

I'm so over it....
I'm over it....

Wanting you,
to be wanting me.
No that ain't no way to be.
How I feel, read my lips,
because I'm so over..
Moving on, it's my time,
you never were a friend of mine.
Hurt at first, a little bit,
but now I'm so over.
I'm so over it.. 

I'm tired...

Thesis...thesis...

Friends.. tell me when it's over!!!

 

Malam ini jadi pengen nulis sesuatu. Habis nonton film korea di Metro TV. Ada pesan moral bagus  yang disampaikan film tersebut. "Menikah itu sama dengan membeli sepatu yang nyaman dipakai di kaki. Walaupun menurut orang lain yang melihat kita memakai sepatu mengatakan bagus, belum tentu bagus bagi kita yang memakai sepatu tersebut."

 

Senang banget nonton film yang happy ending. Tapi kita hidup di dunia nyata, bukan di dunia film. Sungguh kadang gw sering berkhayal andaikan begini, andaikan begitu... Yah, berandai-andai itu sebenarnya nggak ada bagus-bagusnya kadang membuat kita menjadi melambung sehingga nggak sadar dengan dunia nyata yang ada di depan mata. Dunia khayalan "andai-andai" itu memang menyenangkan, membuat kita menjadi terlena.

 

Ya...pada dasarnya saat ini Arun lagi stress mikirin sesuatu yang sangat serius, yaitu thesis yang nggak kunjung-kunjung beres. Should I put it down? Arun yakin Allah swt punya rencana tersendiri buat Arun. Dan Arun juga yakin kalo' hanya dengan usaha yang keras, seseorang dapat mencapai apa yang dia inginkan. Apakah gw dah berusaha keras? Dibandingkan dengan orang-orang yang pernah Arun kenal, usaha gw ini belum ada apa-apanya. Yah... bisa dikatakan saat ini Arun tidak pesimis tapi juga tidak optimis, kata-kata ini g ambil dari salah satu teman Arun yang juga mengalami hal yang sama. He...he..he.. bisa dikatakan sindrom thesis. Mmmm... apakah karena thesis semua orang rada' gila? Yah..bisa dikatakan seperti itu kali' ya :p.

 

Karena kepusingan-kepusingan itu maka Arun memutuskan untuk break sebentar nonton TV. Kebetulan di Metro TV lagi menayangkan film Korea, maka duduklah Arun dengan minat yang penuh untuk menonon film tersebut. Yah.. setelah nonton sepak bola antara Indonesia dan Arab yang menurut gw sangat menyakitkan karena sepertinya wasit lebih berat ke Arab. Yah apa mau dikata, dari segi fisik dan kekuatan kita kalah jauh. 2-1 di saat-saat terakhir, ugh...sedih banget. Kembali ke film korea. Walaupun sedih dengan sepak bola akhirnya Arun menonton film korea tersebut atas rekomendasi adik Arun yang mengatakan kl film tersebut bakal happy ending. Yah setidaknya menghibur semua kesedihan gw, ya kesedihan sepak bola dan yang paling menyedihkan masalah thesis. Apakah ada pengaruhnya? Bisa dikatakan tidak banyak, tapi ada lah pengarunya walaupun dikit. Mestinya gw nulis laporan thesis nih malam ini, tapi rasanya hampa banget and malas nulis thesis, pikiran gw dah berteriak dengan ganasnya "ENOUGH..ENOUGH..." Duh...desperado lagi nih...

I'm happy now, 'cause everyone said:

although everyone said like that, I still feel worry about my thesis. 

Hari ini teman saya dari Bogor menelepon and memberitahu bahwa dia nggak bisa sampai ke kampus karena kereta nggak bisa jalan. Kabel sinyalnya dicuri. Ya ampun.. tuh pencuri ya, kebangetan banget, masa' kabel sinyal kereta dicuri sih.. walhasil banyak manusia2 yang tidak bisa menggunakan fasilitas kereta karena hal tersebut. Apa dia nggak mikir bahaya yang ditimbulkan ketika sinyal kereta dicuri, misalnya aja terjadi tabrakan antar kereta atau orang2 jadi nggak bisa berangkat ke temoat kerja mereka. Bangsa kita ini semakin hancur saja. Kabel sinyal kereta dicuri..ck...ck...ck... Gw mau bilang ma tuh pencuri "TERKUTUK LU!!!"

I've tried to make some crochet... I'm still an amateur

 

How are they? Beautiful right?